How one can go close to stranger with intention of marriage?
To approach a stranger with the intention of marriage, one can express intentions respectfully and within the bounds of Islamic guidelines. The Qur'an states, There is no sin for you in that which ye proclaim or hide in your minds concerning your troth with women. Allah knoweth that ye will remember them. But plight not your troth with women except by uttering a recognised form of words. And do not consummate the marriage until (the term) prescribed is run. Know that Allah knoweth what is in your minds, so beware of Him; and know that Allah is Forgiving, Clement.
2:235. This verse indicates that expressing a desire for marriage is permissible, provided it is done in a recognized and respectful manner.
In practice, it is recommended to approach this situation by first seeking permission from the woman's family. Engaging in a respectful dialogue that outlines your intentions can help set a positive tone. It is also encouraged to observe the individual to ensure compatibility, as indicated by several hadiths where the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ advised looking at the prospective spouse to foster affection and ensure mutual attraction.
For example, the Prophet ﷺ said: Look at her, for there is something in the eyes of the Ansar.
Sunan an-Nasa'i 26:52. This guidance emphasizes the importance of compatibility and mutual respect in the pursuit of marriage, allowing one to build a relationship on trust and understanding.
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2:235 · Al-Baqara
2:235 · Muhammad Marmaduke Pickthall
وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا عَرَّضْتُم بِهِۦ مِنْ خِطْبَةِ ٱلنِّسَآءِ أَوْ أَكْنَنتُمْ فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ ۚ عَلِمَ ٱللَّهُ أَنَّكُمْ سَتَذْكُرُونَهُنَّ وَلَٰكِن لَّا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا إِلَّآ أَن تَقُولُوا۟ قَوْلًۭا مَّعْرُوفًۭا ۚ وَلَا تَعْزِمُوا۟ عُقْدَةَ ٱلنِّكَاحِ حَتَّىٰ يَبْلُغَ ٱلْكِتَٰبُ أَجَلَهُۥ ۚ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ فَٱحْذَرُوهُ ۚ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ غَفُورٌ حَلِيمٌۭ
There is no sin for you in that which ye proclaim or hide in your minds concerning your troth with women. Allah knoweth that ye will remember them. But plight not your troth with women except by uttering a recognised form of words. And do not consummate the marriage until (the term) prescribed is run. Know that Allah knoweth what is in your minds, so beware of Him; and know that Allah is Forgiving, Clement.
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Sunan an-Nasa'i 26:52
Sunan an-Nasa'i · Book 26, Hadith 52 · Narrated by Abu Huraira
A man wished to marry a woman. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: Look at her, for there is something in the eyes of the Ansar.
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