Should / Can a Muslim make arrangements for his grave before dying?
The question of whether a Muslim can make arrangements for their grave before dying has been addressed in both Sunni and Shia traditions, with specific guidance from their respective sources.
According to Sunni scholarship, it is permissible for a Muslim to make preparations for their grave. This is supported by a narration from Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas, who, while he was ill and nearing death, instructed those around him: Dig a grave for me and set out milk pouring for me, as they did for the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ).
Sahih Muslim 11:117. This shows that even in the Prophet's time, Muslims would make arrangements related to their burial.
In Shia scholarship, there is a similar view. A narration from Al-Kafi mentions, When I was near death, I said: When I die, dig a grave for me and make an opening for me.
Al-Kafi 3:196. This indicates that making such arrangements is recognized and practiced.
Thus, both Sunni and Shia traditions support the idea that a Muslim can prepare for their grave before death, demonstrating a cultural and religious practice that emphasizes the importance of being prepared for the afterlife. For specific personal situations, it is best to consult a qualified local scholar.
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Sahih Muslim 11:117
Sahih Muslim · Book 11, Hadith 117 · Narrated by Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas
During his illness in which he passed away, Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas said: Dig a grave for me and set out milk pouring for me, as they did for the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ).
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Al-Kafi 3:196
Al-Kafi · Book 3, Hadith 196
He said, "Write in the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate: Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, O son of Adam, by My will you are the one who wishes, and by My power you fulfill My obligations to Me; by My blessing you are strengthened against disobeying Me. I have made you hearing and seeing. Whatever good befalls you is from Allah, and whatever evil befalls you is from yourself. This is because I am more entitled to your good deeds than you are, and you are more entitled to your bad deeds than I am. This is because I am not asked about what I do, while they are asked. I have arranged for you everything that you desire." — OR — When I was near death, I said: When I die, dig a grave for me and make an opening for me. If it is said to you that the Messenger of God (peace be upon him and his family) his grave was dug, they have told the truth. — OR — When people take their stations at Mina, a caller calls out from the side of Allah, Glorious and Exalted: If you wish to please Me, then indeed I have pleased. — OR — The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him and his family) forbade the marriage of shighar, which is the exchange when a man says to another, 'Marry me your daughter until I marry you my daughter,' without any dowry between them. — OR — The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him and his family) when brought a drinker of wine would flog him, and if he was brought a second time he flogged him again, and if a third time, he would execute him by beheading.
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