What is the proper way to shake hands?
The proper way to shake hands in Islam is highlighted through several hadiths that emphasize the significance of this gesture. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, Whenever two Muslims meet and shake hands, they are forgiven before they part.
Sunan Abu Dawud 43:440. This illustrates the spiritual benefits of shaking hands, as it fosters goodwill and forgiveness between individuals.
Furthermore, when it comes to shaking hands with women, the teachings are more cautious. A narration from Al-Kafi indicates the following guidance: It is not permissible for a man to shake hands with a woman except for a woman he is forbidden to marry—such as a sister, daughter, paternal aunt, maternal aunt, niece, or similar relation. But for women whom it is lawful for him to marry, he should not shake hands except over clothing, and he should not touch her palm directly.
Al-Kafi 3:1056. This demonstrates the care that should be taken in interactions between men and women in accordance with Islamic principles.
Together, these narrations provide a framework for the etiquette of shaking hands, emphasizing both the communal benefits and the necessary boundaries.
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Sunan Abu Dawud 43:440
Sunan Abu Dawud · Book 43, Hadith 440 · Narrated by Al-Bara'
The Messenger of Allah said, "Whenever two Muslims meet and shake hands, they are forgiven before they part."
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Al-Kafi 3:1056
Al-Kafi · Book 3, Hadith 1056
The movement in the valley of Muhassir is one hundred steps. — OR — I asked Abu Abdullah (peace be upon him) about a man shaking hands with a woman. He said, "It is not permissible for a man to shake hands with a woman except for a woman he is forbidden to marry—such as a sister, daughter, paternal aunt, maternal aunt, niece, or similar relation. But for women whom it is lawful for him to marry, he should not shake hands except over clothing, and he should not touch her palm directly."
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